Re-do!
Posted in Love & Marriage, Tech on March 15th, 2010 by Mika – 3 CommentsI’ve been having issues with WordPress for a couple of weeks now. One issues turned out to be one my host’s end and once they knew about it, it was remedied very quickly. Another issues may have been a corrupt script (or plugin) that added some strange numbered .php files and a couple I couldn’t delete on my own. Now, after having unistalled & reinstalled WordPress, I’m still having issues getting it to connect to my FTP server. It’s all been quite frustrating.
Other than that, not much else is new except my husband and I are trying to work through some of our issues in our relationship. We’re finally going to counseling, through his childhood priest. Our medical insurance doesn’t cover couples/marriage counseling, so this is the cheaper alternative, and I think it’ll be beneficial for him to get back in touch with his church. I know being closer with God helps me out a lot. I’d love to find a church and start going. Considering we’re both Christian in the fundamental sense, we couldn’t be more different on how we practice and see our faith. That’s what happens when one person is Catholic in a fairly traditional sense and the other is non-denominational and more celebratory/spiritual about it.
I’ve been to a couple of Catholic services with him, but for the most part I felt pretty strange and awkward, especially when it came to Communion. Since I’m not Catholic, I’m not supposed to take their Communion, and I haven’t – but Devin didn’t tell me I didn’t have to stand in line with my hands crossed over my chest and could’ve stayed in the pew. Being the only person over 4 feet in line doing that, I was feeling mighty awkward!
Our first sit-down with the priest is on Wednesday. I’m curious as to how it’ll go. I really hope it gets him to open up. I’m usually the one talking with him giving me the classic guy “I don’t know.”
With all this relationship stuff going on, needless to say I feel disconnected and down. We’ll see how things go.







